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ALL WE WANT IS, HAPPINESS.....

Life, a word, which begin to play a slideshow of millions of feelings, thoughts, experiences and events right in our mind. Throughout our lifetime, we run past many opportunities and threats that define the course of our life. But how far we have understood this life. Why do we live? What do we want from the life?       Do we want money?       Do we want prestige?       Do we want a nice Job?       Do we want love? What do we actually want? You will say all you want is to make others happy, to earn a lot, to prove something to the world, or just love. But have you really understood the basic want behind all your aspirations from life? What you actually desire from your life? How will you finally say that your lifespan have been meaningful? Is it not right to say that whenever we achieve something from life, we tend to lose its importance? A child loses his excitement over a toy when he gets hold of it. People lose interest in jobs as soon as they grab one. A

Love Redefined

With the advancement of human race and technology, every emotion that humans knew have been redefined with new dimensions. Anger have reached heights, humans have turned indifferent, selfishness have been at the core of existence. But through ages, it appeared that love have been able to stay at the very core of human civilization, without fail and without change. It was thought that love is a feeling that helps a person to be attached to the other soul, in a way that make each other fight every struggle through their lives. Love was seen as the strongest pillar that was seen as the biggest measurement of self-contentment and happiness.  A person who had achieved mutual acceptance of love, was the strongest person, capable enough to fight the world, due to sanctity of his relation. But in the modern love, as the wheel of modernization rotated, the definition of love also changed. Today, love exists in the same amount as past but its form have changed. Earlier, people loved with h

The Superpower Within

The one power that define superiority among every other power present in this world, is the power to understand, to feel and to support. A phone is a constant companion to an individual in the modern times. With the advancement in technology phones have surely turned out to be smart, but I guess in the modern era, apart from smartness, a gadget should have the power to have emotional connect with its user. A well developed emotional quotient in addition to intelligence quotient might cater to the growing insecurities of modern man. A gadget can be lifeless but it turns out to be the most valuable due to its utility. If a phone have the power to emotionally understand its user, then a lonely person can have his confidence boosted instantly. A phone instead of getting commands from user, guides him through various phases of his life. Instead of being ready to listen, a phone should have the power to analyse and suggest, through tough phases, through bad times, through hard work and be a

The Inhuman Humans

Throughout the planet we see a sprawling concrete jungle that surround us in every direction we move our vision. The human civilization have the tendency to prove his supremacy and dominate each and every aspect that, in anyway, surrounds him. He tries to be the world leader and thinks that he has the power to influence every other species that have put its step on this live planet. He have started to believe this earth is the personal property of him. He has the right to exploit every single asset as per his wish that was granted by Mother Nature to the whole biosphere. He is not the master but just the servant of nature, who was made by God, to serve the entire living class, through his intelligence and thoughts.  But the higher intelligence quotient took toll of his goals regarding service. He began his journey on this planet after magnanimous species such as the dinosaurs but began thinking himself to be the pivot around which the whole universe revolves. He started expl

Should I die?

A basic question when we are broken to the core. When we begin to think that destiny and fortune are unfair to us. We start to think that the world is not meant for us or maybe we are not meant to live in this world. We start blaming ourselves for our condition. Then comes a time when we start to have suicidal tendencies. A person begins to think that there is nothing left in this world that can grip him to live. No person, no achievement is as big as his decision to end his life. He wants just the end of all the problems in one go. He feels shattered and broken, weak to again rise and fight against the injustice done to him. He feels that God do not favours him in any circumstance. The fact underlies in these circumstances is that he does not wish to face the harsh struggles. He wishes an easy path. But he is unable to understand that the end is not in his hands. God defines every single moment, every situation, every circumstance and everything he goes through in his lifetime. W

The Game of Life…

Ever imagined that this life of ours is a large game. A game with ups and downs. With pleasures and frowns. There is surely a set of rules in this game, but the course of happenings in life is so uncertain that nobody can predict what would happen next with us? Are we players? Are we playing this game in high spirits? We often come at crossroads in our lives when we think who have created such rules regarding this game? Is God the playmaker or the referee? How would we achieve victory? But ever wondered while thinking, that if this life is a game then who are the contenders. Because, in a game, somebody has to win, someone has to taste defeat. If we win then someone will surely have to be defeated. Whom have we to defeat? How would we achieve victory? Do some success mantra exist to win this game of life? We ourselves are our own competitors. We win by running past our own self. In this life, no one can compete with our personality. We have to run in the direction of our goal, r

THE HYPE BEHIND FYUP

The Four Year Undergraduate Program that was due to be implemented from this session in the Delhi University have come under great criticism and scrutiny from various social as well as student groups in the recent days. The events have led to the creation of such circumstances that have led to the offer of resignation from the Chancellor of DU. The hype created over this issue have affected the future decisions of thousands of students who wish to take admission in the Delhi University after completing their schooling. What is FYUP? The four year undergraduate program is ought to be a visionary concept by the Chancellor of Delhi University that is bound to change the way Indian student learns after their schooling. The current system of the undergraduate program offers bachelor degree after three years of studies. The new system is set to convert the traditional 3 year program into a more holistic one that is spread over four years with the first year entirely dedicated t

Religious journey….

‘Challa ki labhda firre…’ God is one!! How many times we read in life that all the religions in the world preach the way of god. They teach us how we can attain salvation and make our lives successful. Every believer, be it either Hindu, Muslim, Sikh or Christian, firmly trusts that he will be able to attain his God through the teachings and path shown as per scriptures. But, the point is, have we really understood the teachings in the real sense. We blindly listen to what we are taught without logical thinking, and this is where superstitions and myths develop. All the scriptures, their teachings, and the lessons taught to us always had some logical reasons behind it. Nothing was developed without a thought process. Bhagwat was not recited without any reason. Jesus did not come back without any reason. Every task done by God had reasons behind it. Nature, which is developed through God’s blessing also have deep logic behind every act. Water cycle, replenishment of resources,

The fakeness behind kind acts

‘For men may come and men may go, but I go on forever…’ In life you might have felt that often some people come as a savior who make us feel that we are the most special one who need care and attention to the core. People like these tend to show extra care and make us feel that they are the ones we need the most. We often fall prey to the illusion that these people will be present for us through all thick and thins paving ways for our success. They are the ones we completely rely upon with the passing time. People show us all the dreams we never thought will come out to be true. We are then captured in a whole new tide of optimism where we see others as the drivers of our destiny. Their each and every task starts having a profuse impact on our being. We start expecting much greater from them. With time, we develop a strange attachment with the person. We feel we need them. We cannot live without them. I am not just talking about the love-relationship stuff  but also of su

Jannatein kahan bin hue fannah

‘Bina mare swarg nahi naseeb hota…’ ( the Pleasure of heaven is never tasted without sacrificing own life) The above phrase correctly can justify all the difficulties, challenges and trouble we face during our lifetimes. We often see ourselves running away, praying and avoiding troubles and challenges in order to lead a simpler, peaceful life. It is not bad to lead a peaceful and happier life away from difficulties but in order to develop and reach the next level of satisfaction and peace it is actually needed to part away from the comforts of the last step as in order to rise up the ladder one needs to part away from the last step. Difficulties and challenges are the stepping stones of development. God always blesses us. When we blame God for landing us in trouble, God has planned a better future much brighter than our thoughts. And for its achievement, a test in the form of a challenge is presented just to make our own soul clear about our capabilities. He does not give troub

Shattered But Not Broken....

I am shattered but not at all broken….. “Throughout my life I have seen difficulties, pain, sadness, gloom, anger and worries. I have been subjected to every negative feeling that can cross the minds of any normal human being. I had felt pain to the extremes. The days seemed like volcanic eruptions and bad luck showered on me like rains of fire. Throughout my past, I had only known one feeling. A feeling of emptiness. Anyone I trusted, anyone on whom I was dependent left one by one. It seemed that I was not meant to be guided by anyone, it seemed like I am a wandering dissatisfied soul for whom no one seems to do the last rites as to attain salvation. Alone, sad and worrisome, I was the least necessary person in the whole world. It seemed that the basic aim of my life now was not to achieve anything but to bring back all that I had lost. Unclear in vision, I roamed here and there, door to door, person to person, in the search of happiness and peace. I too wanted a happy lif

The Real You...

The Real You… Who am I? Why have I taken birth? What is my real aim? How will I find my destination? These are some of the basic questions that cross everyone’s mind at some points in their lifetime. Have you ever tried to solve out the mystery of your life? Why, the universe with all the paraphernalia surrounds you? Why are you here? Is there any force above your control that controls your being? Is someone trying to guide you through your lives? Does God exist? The above questions have been discussed numerous times in the history of mankind but still no one is clear in their minds about their own being. GOD.. When this particular word crosses our minds, we begin to visualize a personality, so mighty who can take the burden of the materialistic world apart from the whole universe. On the top of it, people begin to pray him for their individual wants and desires. Kindly think once that if the personality of god’s stature exists, then will he be able to grant ever

Driving down the memory lane…..

Driving down the memory lane….. Throughout our lifetime, our mind continues to be in a responsive state where it is burdened with the heavy task of maintaining the normal functioning of the body at one side and keeping the track record of moments, events and people that are special to us. This track record of precious moments is known as one's memory. A person right from the day he grabs senses start building an immense database in his mind about all those facts, stories, events, happenings and people who grab a special place in his heart. He wishes that he could relive the moments that soothe his soul. But as the passing tide, time too never waits for us to relish the moment completely. The task of fulfillment of one’s soul to contentment related to a particular point or person is done through the memories we develop. We develop all kinds of memories through the course of our lives. Some beautiful, some ugly, some special, some not so special, some we never want to liv

The Natural Sadist

Throughout our lives, we run past many people. Some are good, some bad; some take our heart away, and some etch indelible marks on our soul. Some help us through this material journey, some become obstacles. But everyone out there surely come across such people in their lives who have no particular aim for the future. The person appears as if he has no work to do on his own self. He/she always irritates us, makes our life hell, and appears as if deriving pleasure from our troubled state. We feel as if the person had just taken birth on this planet to make others regret their births. The pains a sadist gives to others is nothing more than the punishments given in hell. He makes us regret every decision we take. He/she may be anyone in your life. An unsatisfied boss, a clingy distant family member, a person we used to recognize as a friend, a revengeful enemy or just another stranger who seems to make life hard for you. Who is a sadist?  A sadist it seems have cruel intentio

The Lone Mind, in moments of emptiness, we self-realize

The Lone Mind, in moments of emptiness, we self-realize Give a thought to the above words. You will surely realize that in the lone moments of the day your mind runs at a different track. You start imagining things you never noticed, your thoughts take you to a parallel world, a world where everything is at peace, a world of your dreams, a world where all your worries vanish, and a world where it seems you don’t need to panic. Loneliness is not always bad for health for it initiates a fresh thought process. Whenever we think about the life we live in moments of solace, we realize what we actually want, what we actually are. Throughout the day in our fast paced life, we can never ever think of self-introspection, but back in our rooms away from every noise, we can turn our mind into a  device that not only thinks but also solves, a device that not only solves, but also clears out confusions. In moments of solace only enlightenment occurs. In Indian mythology too, we see sa

Happy Fathers Day Papaji..... Miss you....

Wherever you are, you are not that far, I know you sacrificed many things in your life, just to make my future bright. I remember that you gave me the lesson of confidence, the lesson that is still helping me to fight the harsh realities of life. Maybe because I could not see you, that is why I break down often, but this does not mean I don’t believe in my own self, this does not mean I am breaking your dreams. I know you are not with me in person, but I also know that wherever you are at this moment you are showering your blessings each single moment on me for my bright future. Now I know how much you had seen in your life, how much you had done for the family. I admit I am not strong enough, but you taught me to make my future. I will surely make the future of our dreams, a future where never again I have to cry. A future you dreamt for me. I know you might be far, but you are somehow creating opportunities for my success. I know you are the one who send good people in my life t

‘Kya Karein Kya Naa Karein, Ye Kaisi Mushkil Haaye………’

‘Kya Karein Kya Naa Karein, Ye Kaisi Mushkil Haaye………’ Whenever a student is faces the question of ‘What’s Next?’ his mind answers the question with the above lines. He is seen confused amid a variety of courses and more than that from the neverending series of suggestions from the known and unknown people in his or her extended circles. A student passing tenth faces the trouble of choosing a particular stream, the one who passes 12th faces the question of joining a college and moreover which degree. The one who completes graduation finds hard to solve the puzzle to either hunt for a job or to pursue further education. The ones doing professional courses like CA are seen regretting many times during their course of article ship. In short, everyone faces this dilemma of how to tackle the problem related to his/her own career. He/she wants to prove himself in this global arena. He wants to choose an apt course which not only enhance his/her own capabilities, but also want a cours

Think before you act, your act affects others, do consider this fact…

“This is my life!! Do not try to interfere”…. Pallav shouted hard at Meera, hard enough to shake the very soul of her. She had always been the most affectionate and caring personality in Pallav’s life right from his childhood. She had been a friend, companion, a support system and his soul mate. She had seen worse times of his life and made sure he never broke off during the darkened phases of life. She had cared for him as a mother, listened to his apprehensions like a sister, supported him as a wife, and stood by her through the test of time. Their relationship was the one where the weight to push forward the relationship and future were only on the delicate shoulders of Meera. Every single night she would cry hard thinking about her destiny that her future held. It was not that she was unhappy about her relationship. But, she too deserved care; she yearned for love; she wanted affection from the one whom she considers her life. She had always been a pillar that supported

I’ll be always by your side, in your smile is my pride…

 Ever since you came to my life, I always wished to give you eternal happiness. Your thoughts used to take all my time. I wished that you never should be sad. No sorrow or grief should ever touch the pint of your soul. In the prayers of your happiness, my nights would turn dark. The sun that came the following day greeted me with praise about my concern for you. I believed and knew that my prayers would never go unanswered. God would surely create the best future for you. I wished to be by your side throughout our lives. But one fine day, I got worried about the life you would get once you marry off. As your well-wisher and the secret admirer, I became tense about the treatment you would receive from your in-laws. Would you also have to surrender to the misery of life? Would my prayers for your happiness are a waste? Would you not receive happiness and smiles whole of your life? I loved the way you smiled. Though we had not met, but our connection, that string that connected us even

The love behind my silence

‘Everytime I look towards you, my heart skips a beat. Every single day when I find you close to me, my life seems complete.  I know I could not express, I know I could not impress. The silence between us is like a hurdle, I look upon myself as a burden. No matter how much I love you from the core of my heart, I know we are meant to be far, miles apart. Not in distances but in lives, separated by our way of thinking, our fortunes not meant to be bright….’ Anant wrote every day, a page especially for her. He knew she never  noticed her and in no way he could be noticed in the social circles. He was born to be silent. He couldn’t speak. But yes he had feelings, like any other human being he demanded love, he deserved love. Since he knew the word love, only one person crossed his mind day and night, she was the girl next door, Shanaya. She brought up in a richer family than Anant’s seemed far away from his reach. It was not that she believed in class conflict, but she never c

Behind every successful man, there is a woman…but a lot more than her too......

Successful personalities are the ones who are seen by the society as idols, Idols that are needed to be worshipped and followed throughout lives in order to achieve greater heights in career and  lifetime. A man, specifically is that specie whose success is a major determinant of the future of his families and coming generation. A man’s success is often attributed to the lady luck in his life and, it is also often said that, ‘Behind every successful man, there is a woman. But is that the only thing that a man has that lead to his success. Is a woman, the only motivating force behind a man ?? Often it is projected in movies and elsewhere that the hero or the protagonist only achieves success once the lady luck showers fortunes on him. Even wealth is also said to come to those who have the blessings of Goddess Lakshmi, a lady. But do really only having a lady in once life the only thing that ensure success. Does not a man compromise other things in his life for the success. D
Gore haathon me mehandi ka rang hai gehra.... Laage hai ab pyar karne waalon ka aane wala hai waqt sunahara... Ek ek pal ab lagne laga hai thehara thehera.... Ab to bas saanson par hai ek bas yaar ke naam ka pehra... Aa jaye bas ab wo pal jab milein pyar karne waale do dil.... Waqt ko bhagao jaldi kaho yar ko ab jaldi se aa mil Aane ko hi ab hai raat milan ki... Khatam hone ko hi hain ab ghadiyaan sabar ki... Aayega jab yaar tab aayegi suhaani bahaar Milega aakhirkaar tootkar chaha hua wo pyar Jeewan mein fir ek naya savera hoga Khushiyon ka subah shaam fir zindagi mein basera hoga... -Anmol