Love Redefined

With the advancement of human race and technology, every emotion that humans knew have been redefined with new dimensions. Anger have reached heights, humans have turned indifferent, selfishness have been at the core of existence. But through ages, it appeared that love have been able to stay at the very core of human civilization, without fail and without change. It was thought that love is a feeling that helps a person to be attached to the other soul, in a way that make each other fight every struggle through their lives. Love was seen as the strongest pillar that was seen as the biggest measurement of self-contentment and happiness.  A person who had achieved mutual acceptance of love, was the strongest person, capable enough to fight the world, due to sanctity of his relation.

But in the modern love, as the wheel of modernization rotated, the definition of love also changed. Today, love exists in the same amount as past but its form have changed. Earlier, people loved with heart, now people love with mind. Selfishness and personal motives have took over minds of people in emotional attachment too. People find time for only those who have something to give in return. Love, was a feeling, that included showering selfless love in lieu of love. But now love is distributed on the base of benefits derived out of an individual. If you have the potential to balance love in the weights of gifts and benefits, you will surely be showered with immeasurable care, affection, love and attachment.

Considerations are the core of every relation in the modern time. Earlier, people used to grow stronger each day due to the presence of a loved one in their life, but now they find themselves blackmailed, cheated, weak and dependent on the other one. The mutual trust between two souls have slowly broken and have not stood the test of time. Doubts, insecurities and fakeness have crept in human soul. Time have made human soul suspicious to positivity. The long period of struggle and strife in mankind have seriously impacted the human personality on a subconscious level. Love, is replaced by lust, affection is treated as infection and care is just bare.

Love, was meant to connect the mankind. But in modern times, love is dividing the human civilization due to caste and creed considerations. The inter-caste and interracial considerations among human society have left in dividing the divine sanctity of emotions too. Today, love is done on the basis of sensibility that was once known for purity of thoughts. A cold mind took over warm emotions of the heart. Blood surely pumps color on the walls of the heart, but the youthfulness of the human soul have been long lost in the sands of time due to his selfish motives. In a society, one can see incidents easily which make one believe that the world is faking emotions in the name of love. Love have been defamed because of the dirt in the human mind.

‘Pyar to Sri Krishna ne bhi kia tha, usme kaha burai hai,
Aaj ke zamane me lekin, pyar mein bhi seemayein aayi hai
Kia jaata hai ye jaat paat, paisa aukat ki baatein soch samajhkar,
Fir kaha isme acchai hai..
Dimag ka nahi dil ka khel hai ye, Iski seemayein kahan kisi ne banayi hain…’

Dirt is in mind, not in heart. Heart is only pure. Mind is influenced by the actions in history and surrounding, but the heart is only influenced by the presence of divine truth inside every individual. One should love with purity and not formality. The world would be then, a nice place to live with trust on love once again established.