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Behind every successful man, there is a woman…but a lot more than her too......




Successful personalities are the ones who are seen by the society as idols, Idols that are needed to be worshipped and followed throughout lives in order to achieve greater heights in career and  lifetime. A man, specifically is that specie whose success is a major determinant of the future of his families and coming generation. A man’s success is often attributed to the lady luck in his life and, it is also often said that, ‘Behind every successful man, there is a woman. But is that the only thing that a man has that lead to his success. Is a woman, the only motivating force behind a man ??
Often it is projected in movies and elsewhere that the hero or the protagonist only achieves success once the lady luck showers fortunes on him. Even wealth is also said to come to those who have the blessings of Goddess Lakshmi, a lady. But do really only having a lady in once life the only thing that ensure success. Does not a man compromise other things in his life for the success. Does he do not have the right to be credited for his success. How often do we see a man’s perspective of his journey of his life. The troubles he faced, the hurdles he over came. Does saying only that he has a woman by her side to support her enough to overshadow his own hardwork?
Does not a man, start compromising from an early age? He is expected to be a bread earner as soon as he completes his studies. He is never seen enjoying his life, rather he is seen toiling day in and out for the better future of his would be family. He is often looked down by relatives, neighbors, etc. during times of failures. He has a burden of pressures piling up right from his schooling. Higher grades would ensure top colleges landing him to a respectable job in the society . and suddenly all his hardwork’s credits are given to a woman that may not even have seen him during his harsh times.


To be continued…….

- Astute Anmol

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