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What is perfection? How can you say that a person is perfect or not? Is there any criteria of perfection or it is just a chance that someone seems perfect to us when we see a person? The secret of perfection is in the secret of human existence…. Human beings are dynamic, their behaviors, their deeds and everything related to humans are dynamic in nature. This means they constantly change. This is also true in the case of perfectionism. What may be perfect for you might not mean perfect for another person. For someone a person who is understanding may be perfect, and for someone the one who gives maximum time is perfect. But one thing no one can deny that perfectionism is not static. Perfection is dynamic too. You might be perfect in your work, but may not be perfect in your personal relations. This is because the one who has the power to judge your perfection is not you. It is another human soul. And as mentality of a person changes from a person to person, so is the defini...

Who wants to bring the change???? Everyone!!! Who wants to change??? No one!! A very peculiar situation which is seen in the modern society from time to time. People in the country or the world at large always seem to crib for one or the other thing. They want the system to change. They want that everything should be in place, be disciplined and be as per the rules. They want no crowd anywhere. They want the police to come on time. They want the traffic to be reduced. People want the antisocial elements to be eradicated. They want drugs to be eliminated. They want everything in a picture perfect way. They want corruption to end. They want black money to be brought back… But anyone of the general public, if asked, what they are doing for it, will reply, “Why should I do something for an issue? There are specialized departments, NGO’s, ministers etc for the same? What effect will I be producing even if I start a change?” the answer, “IN ORDER TO ACCOMMODATE BIGGER...

Art is something related to creativity, art is the skill where one uses his skill to devise something new, something creative. Art is meant to innovate, to show the world something new, art is something which have no dimensions. It is true that not everyone is an art lover, neither everyone has the capacity to tolerate art forms, be it paintings, writings, movies, music or any other form. The recent hype towards the movie ‘PK’ and Aamir Khan portraying Hindu traditions and god men as fake and useless is utter disgust. What I believe that Aamir Khan is an artist, the writer who wrote, Abhijat Joshi, is an artist, and an artist is meant to show whatever he feels like. If someone is not tolerant towards his/her idea, be kind enough either to ignore it or be silent enough not to let him/her feel bad about his art or creativity. An artist does a lot of hard work to present the world something new, in a new way, which the world is unable to comprehend with normal eyes. Anything that is...

Life is like an eternal tale. One’s life is divided in a number of years. Each year is a collection of months, each month have days and each day have moments. These are the moments which weave our memories. These memories are responsible for our feelings. Sadness or happiness, every emotion is due to feelings. Moment in life are sometimes so strong in impact that their impact keep on influencing our life for years and even a lifetime. Some moments are not meant to be forgotton and some are not forgotten even if we wish so. These can be the happy moments or even the worst moments of our life which keep on haunting us. Today, is one such day, which I do not know, is a happy one for me or a sad one. If someone would have asked me this question 5 years ago, it was one of the best days of my life. But this is the beauty of life and time. The same day, the same moment, but not the same effect anymore. One negative moment in my life was powerful enough to make this day one of th...

Whenever I am down to my diary or laptop or anything on which I can scribble, I have only one thing on my mind, to write something, which can touch any soul in a way, which he can relate to. Sometimes, whatever I write is related to real life experiences, but many a times, what I write, does not mean that I am expressing my feelings. Sometimes, some writings also can be by a writer’s pen to make the other one understand a point which is hard and painful to understand in real life. That is why a writer pens down a story, so that people should read and learn from the mistakes of the characters in the story. But many a times, it is seen that a person in the writer’s life or his known begin to judge him through his writings. I personally feel that I should be known by my writings, but this does not mean that if I make a point in my writing, to make the other one understand, I have to stick to it the whole life. The reason being, humans are dynamic and complex. Everyone’s life is ...

Life is a complex maze, where each single moment we face such a situation, when we begin to feel that there is nothing left in our life. These are the situations, which shake you to the core and make you suspicious about yourself. At this moment, you are the weakest person alive, you begin to think. All your achievements, rewards, talents and happiness in your life seem like a lie. You begin to question God and your destiny for the situation you are facing. These situations can be related to anything. Maybe you are unable to score well, or maybe you are suffering from the loss of a loved one in your life or maybe your boyfriend, whom you trusted to the core and believed that he would be with you for the rest of life, ditched you. Or you begin to feel that there is no future with the one whom you love the most. Maybe the society will not permit you to be with each other, or maybe, you both were never meant for each other. Whatever may be the case, this leads you in the mid ...

Life makes us busy as we move ahead. As we grow old, our responsibilities increase and with this increased load on our shoulders, we begin to get involved more in our own lives. We engage ourselves more and more with passing time and due to this, many a times, we forget to show care and love to the ones who care for us, or for whom we care. This situation does a lot of harm to relationships. When situations such as these arise, it is common for anyone to start thinking that a person is avoiding intentionally. But many a times, it is not the matter of intention but sheer coincidence that we are unable to reciprocate the kind of love and care to the ones who mean a lot in our lives. Today, I wish to make everyone feel, the emptiness, which you would feel without your loved one, whom you often ignore unintentionally. This may be because of increasing workload in your life, or lack of time to connect, or maybe because it had been a long while since you connected with them. It might...