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You are stronger than you think…

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Life is a complex maze, where each single moment we face such a situation, when we begin to feel that there is nothing left in our life. These are the situations, which shake you to the core and make you suspicious about yourself. At this moment, you are the weakest person alive, you begin to think. All your achievements, rewards, talents and happiness in your life seem like a lie. You begin to question God and your destiny for the situation you are facing.

These situations can be related to anything. Maybe you are unable to score well, or maybe you are suffering from the loss of a loved one in your life or maybe your boyfriend, whom you trusted to the core and believed that he would be with you for the rest of life, ditched you. Or you begin to feel that there is no future with the one whom you love the most. Maybe the society will not permit you to be with each other, or maybe, you both were never meant for each other. Whatever may be the case, this leads you in the mid of a violent tornado, which keep shaking your belief in god and the good. All this makes you broken, and you start to forget your own goals. You start keeping your own putting the things which are important for you and your future at the back seat. All you do is to remember either the past good time, or you think of an ideal situation in mind, where everything is all right. In short, you start cutting yourself from reality, your goal, your aim and your life, because of a thing or a person, who might not be of much importance in the future.

Think about it once. The person you are worrying about or the relation you feel is not more in your life, will they matter in the coming life when you have everything. Think of it that will it matter after 5 years or so? If a situation or a relation do not seem to be of much value in long term, maybe this is because god wants you to learn an important lesson from it. Not all situations or persons are meant to stay with you for the rest of your lives. Some come to make you realize that you are much stronger than you believe you are, and to make you understand that life is much more than adversities. Life is about yourself, your happiness, your aim, your goal, your destiny. And you are the one, who is the creator of your own destiny. So when something makes you feel broken, do not feel disheartened, instead think that god has come up with another way to examine you as a person. This is an exam where you will be in merit even if you fail. If a situation turns out to be positive, you would cherish it for life, but even if something turns out to be negative, it would provide you with an important lesson, the lesson of self-importance. The lesson that nothing in the world means more than your own self. If you concentrate on yourself, everything will be in place in the future….

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