Life makes us busy as we move ahead. As we grow old, our
responsibilities increase and with this increased load on our shoulders, we
begin to get involved more in our own lives. We engage ourselves more and more
with passing time and due to this, many a times, we forget to show care and
love to the ones who care for us, or for whom we care. This situation does a
lot of harm to relationships. When situations such as these arise, it is common
for anyone to start thinking that a person is avoiding intentionally. But many
a times, it is not the matter of intention but sheer coincidence that we are
unable to reciprocate the kind of love and care to the ones who mean a lot in
our lives.
Today, I wish to make everyone feel, the emptiness, which
you would feel without your loved one, whom you often ignore unintentionally.
This may be because of increasing workload in your life, or lack of time to
connect, or maybe because it had been a long while since you connected with
them. It might be possible that you might not be in touch with someone, but you
still feel the emptiness in your life, because you are unable to contact a
particular person.
This distance may be physical, or mental, or just the
distance of hours, days, months or years since you last conversed, but one
thing is for sure, if you still think about them while you get even a single
minute, it is for sure that you are waiting for them, to come back in your
life, like before. This emptiness may be because of your loved one, your
parent, your best friend, your companion, your roomie or anyone you feel
connected to.
Just once, think about, if you too mean to them like they
mean to you, how much emptiness they might be feeling in their lives today,
without you. If you feel lonely without them, it might be a possibility that
they might be too feeling the same. Some people do not show, but they care.
“Ehmiyat ko mat naapo dikhawe ke taraazoo mein,
Kuch logon ka andaaz
alag hota hai,
Dikhate to wo hain jo jataate nahin
Pyaar to ek adrishya jazbaat hota hai……..”