Khushi Kismat se nahi, Khud dhundhne se milti hai

Have you ever felt low in your life? I bet you do have felt at one point of time or the other. What do you say at that time, “ Meri Kismat me hi nahi hai Khush rehna.” Or “I am not meant to be happy.

God is unfair with me.”

But is it the truth?

I don’t think so.

God is the same with everyone. God is of forgiving nature. He never takes revenge out of you. It is just that your own deeds come in front of you at some point in life.

But the main point here is, that you learn to ask happiness from your destiny. One needs to learn that happiness is not the virtue of your luck or destiny. Happiness is in small things, small moments which have nothing to do of your luck. Happiness can be found if you are searching happiness in the real sense. Tell me one thing, do you ever think about being happy from the core? I do not think anyone does this. People always are heard to say that they should have this, or that or one person with them, then they will attain happiness. This means that the standard of their happiness is dependent on happening of some event or the other, which is contingent.

But happiness is not a contingent phenomenon. It is a perpetual state of heart and mind which once achieved, is never needed to be think about again. This means that the things or the people we seek happiness in, are not the real source of happiness. Happiness surely is found if we start finding happiness, but where we seek happiness is the big question.

I have often said that happiness is an inner feeling, and people say me that if it is on the inside, why are we not able to find it after so many years. Why are we sad if happiness is inside us. I would just ask a single question, When was the last time you had spent time with yourself? When was the last time you had thought about yourself and not what you want to achieve and buy? When was the last time you had forgot every materialistic desire? I know most of the people do not even know when their last was. And I guess many have got their answers too.

Learn to see happiness in whatever you do instead of yearning for more and more materialism in your life. Learn to appreciate the small things if you want to learn the real essence of happiness.

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