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An insightful analysis of ‘happiness’

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We find happiness in small things, we find happiness in sweeping victories, we find happiness in meeting loved ones, and we find happiness in doing things we love.
In short, we find happiness in a million ways. This also means that all a human brain strives for is happiness. Right from the day it starts functioning, it is on an endless pursuit to find happiness, in things, events, and people. We try to do our best during our lives, and, in turn, ask only one thing in return, i.e. happiness.
If someone wants materialistic comforts, it is for happiness, if someone seeks company, it is to find the solace of happiness. All in all, everything we are working upon is linked to our happiness. It is the fundamental nature of a living being, to look for happiness.
In life, we try to find a million ways which promise happiness in the real sense, but we may have done everything wrong in this pursuit altogether.
How?
Because of our corrupt brains which seek happiness on the outside. We have been taught since long about the concept of happiness, but no one has bothered to tell the real essence of happiness. When we talk about happiness, it doesn’t mean things, people, places or events…. Or the comforts of having one or all of them, it is the inner solace, which we try to link to the external factors. But in reality, happiness is a secret achievement, not meant to be showcased to the outer world explicitly.
When we look for happiness in materialism, we are vulnerable to the fear of losing the same…
When we look for happiness in people, we make ourselves vulnerable to the fear of broken expectations…
When we seek happiness in situations, we are fearful of the events not happening at all….
The gist of the whole thing is … Never rely on anything for your happiness, for happiness is not in things. Things, people, events create fear in our minds or reliance. But in reality, we are meant to be self-reliant by nature. God created us as a single unit with all the capabilities. It is our own self who started relying on external factors for our happiness.
In reality, happiness is not on the outside, but in the personal comfort, which we feel when we are independent of other factors when we know ourselves, and discover our abilities, when we are confident about our journey and walk on the path, which we discover ourselves.
People come to me to ask, how I manage to work, how I manage to convince and still how I manage to calm my own self. I always say that this is because I know myself; inside out… that is the strength and comfort of my existence, for I never lend my key to happiness to anyone… maybe that is why I manage to sail through…
Try believing in yourself, before making others believe in you… and you would realize the immense potential of your abilities both in professional life and personal stride towards happiness…

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