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You need to stay away from own self, in order to know your true self


An individual is nothing but a mortal cage of a combination of bones and muscles. He is known to encase in himself, an eternal storehouse of strength, potential and power, which is unfathomable even if he himself try to explore. This is because a human soul is always on a journey, on an exploration and on an endeavor to make himself much better than before. All our efforts, our studies and our expertise is focused just on a single thing, to make ourselves better than before.
In this endeavor, you have to pass through a thousand of phases, some are bright where as many are also dark enough to overshadow the brightness. A human due to these perpetual phases of light and dark, sometimes becomes perplexed about what he is and what he is not. He becomes directionless and wanders here and there in a hope that somehow he finds back his original path, the path for which he is meant, the reason because of which he exists.
Life is a busy road, where each of us is like the thousand vehicles on the highway, forever moving, in the race to reach its destination. The roads are same, but it is not compulsory that we all are perched for the same destination on the same road. Maybe, two cars follow each other unknowingly for a long distance than disperse and change their directions once they get the turn towards their final destination.
The traffic on the highway always seems to move. But then, there are resting spots on the highways too. In our country, we have roadside dhaba’s where travelers hop in for a quick snack, food or just for relaxation from the monotonous travel schedule. This happens even if we are to go to the most desired place, or to a holiday spot. In such a case, even if our heart desires for that destination, it does not necessarily means that we move towards it without a halt in our journey. We stop, we rest, we calm down, relax and re-energize ourselves for the next leg of our journey.
Similarly, in life too, sometimes we need to stay away from the road towards our destination in order to understand the truer meaning of our own personality or just to re affirm the notion that we really want something and then re-energize ourselves for the same journey ahead. And this do not necessarily means we are giving up our dream, it just means, we are not energized enough to continue the journey at this point of time, but we will relax and collect our scattered energies, and once again will move on the same path, without unnecessarily worrying because of the delay in reaching the destination, because it is known to all of us that it is always advisable to be better late than never.

So calm down, relax and be confident, because if something is really meant for you, you ll reach with your efforts alone and no amount of extra force would be needed for you to grab an opportunity to reach that far.

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