It is never easy to change your own perception….

Whenever life comes with a new challenge for you to take up, you always end up being frightened. This fear of facing the unknown, includes in itself, the danger of not being able to cope up with the challenge and losing in the end. This fear of the unknown defeat, delves deep in your heart and soul, that you start finding ways to keep your life away from any changes. You just want that your life should always be a pleasant ride without any shocks. The challenges presented by the destiny or fate or whatever you may call it, make you suspicious of your own abilities. The truth, as many of us know is, that a man never faces any such hurdle, of which he do not have the ability to overcome. In short, whatever you face, you have the solution, deep within your own soul, deep within your own abilities, and deep within your own self, just the matter is of introspecting your own self, to find your abilities, and to use them in a way, that you come out to be victorious of any hurdle, any turbulence or any circumstance which pulls you back from moving forward.

It is just your own perception, which pulls you back, nothing else. When you blame god, destiny or luck, of not favoring you, just think once, what all efforts you do in your daily life, to change your own perception about your own abilities. When you feel that you cannot do a task, do you bother to know the reason, why you think in negative about a particular task? Do you bother to question your own self for not being competent like you question others in case someone fails to work as per your wish? Do you have the ability to take it upon yourself, or you just have the habit of blaming others, be it a person, thing or circumstance.

It is essential, that in order to succeed, one must change his own perception about himself, rather than making a perception against his own self and his abilities.

To succeed, it is essential to discover the need, the need to change your own self, before thinking about changing the world as per your wish.

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