Forever with you, tough you can’t see through

I wished I had a rewind button in the recorder called life. Each day as the sun rises in the east, a new journey awaits for us that take us forward towards our goals, or may be pulls us back. The question here is, do we ever realize what we have lost in the process of moving forward. Or, do we bother to understand if we can bring back all that we have lost in the process of building up our personality?

Throughout the life, we meet different people. Right from the time of our birth, we are introduced with a new set of known and unknown faces till the time we depart. Some influence our mentality, nature and personality while others fail even to leave a mark in our memories. We crib for the ones we love. We long for their company. We wish they should never leave us throughout our life.

But humans are mortal. Through normal course of our lives, many come and go. Some even push us out of their lives without any explanation or any natural cause. It is just that our role in their life; our importance is finished. But the ones who genuinely also care leave due to the natural cycle of life and death. One can be extremely in a state of gloom if one’s hopes and dreams are shattered in a moment due to the sudden demise of a loved one.

He can begin to think that life is not worth living anymore. He begins to curse his stars because he could not do anything to change the course of destiny. He feels he is left alone in this world. But think of the fact that there are millions of kids who lose their parents much before they learn how to speak. There are millions and millions of mother’s, wife and family members who lose their son, husband or any other member due to war or civil strife or terrorist attacks. Although, no one can compensate the loss caused due to their demise.
But one needs to understand that life goes on. And a loved one never leave your side because his love, his principles and his devotion towards you never changes. His blessings are always showered on your soul wherever you are. It is just that we fail to see how a person impacted our soul because of his gestures and love and when he leaves us all of a sudden we feel an extreme form of gloom and despair. One should keep in mind that a sad soul is never sought by the loved one. They know their importance in your life, but life is so uncertain, no one can predict his death, but I am sure wherever your loved one is, maybe far, maybe forever gone, he would be trying to touch your life through the things he told you, through his memories, and through his knowledge that he left behind for you to use.