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Dooriyaan.... bane nazdikiyaan.. long distance relationships

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It's been almost an year since we together but however our couple is not like others. We don’t get to see eachother often, we don't feel eachother often and neither do we meet eachother quite often. Yes, you guessed it right diary. It's all because we are in a “LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP” I really miss her a lot. We converse with eachother once in a day atleast but still it doesn’t seem enough because whenever I see my peer group enjoying and partying with their partners, I feel really alone. I MISS HER always. Before going into this relation we both were actually very reluctant and why not? Long distance relation is after all very difficult to maintain. We need loads of trust, loads of determination, loads of patience in order to keep up to the relation. It actually requires huge amount of “ADJUSTMENT” from both sides. However, nowadays social networking sites like “FACEBOOK” and “SKYPE” has made it a bit easy to keep in touch but still long distance is a long distance relation. At times I feel that is this relation actually worth it? because there are many situations when I actually need her “PERSONALLY” for her guidance, for her support, for her advice but unfortunately she can’t be with me quite often and especially when I need her the most she is never here with me. We get to see eachother hardly once or twice in an year so is it really worth? I thought and thought and came to the conclusion that “YES” it's definitely worth the effort. Just imagine, it's so beautiful that you pour all your trust, all your co- operation, all your loyalty towards a “SPECIAL PERSON”, the person for whom you can do just anything, the person with whom you can just be you, the person who loves you unconditionally. It portrays how much “DEEPLY” the couple is into eachother. How much determined they both are towards eachother. How much they are striving to be with eachother and most importantly how much they are in “LOVE” with eachother. Yes, we don’t get to see eachother often, we can’t hang around like other couples, we can’t celebrate and party together so what? Atleast we are “TOGETHER” and that's what makes this long distance relation even special because even after all these difficulties we are “TOGETHER” and that's what matters the most. Even after all these hurdles, all these difficulties if a couple can manage to maintain their relation then I guess this is in itself, the “BIGGEST PROOF” how much they love eachother, how pure their love towards eachother is, how blindly the couple “TRUST” eachother. I don't get to see her often and I do miss her a lot but whenever I think of this quote I just forget everything and be happy and thank the dearest almighty for blessing me with “HER” "DON’T LET DISTANCE RUIN YOUR LOVE BECAUSE A DAY FARTHER TO THE LAST TIME YOU SAW THEM, IS A DAY CLOSE WHEN THE NEXT TIME YOU GONNA MEET THEM" LONG DISTANCE RELATION - DIFFICULT BUT TRULY WORTH IT

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