Lost in the crowd

At various points of this continuously running life, each one of us come to a point where we feel stuffed. Stuffed because we see a number of people around us, people who are successful, the achievers, looking at whom we always feel low because we are not at their level of success.

The people whom we see all around us, make us feel lost in the crowd, not even like the ones in the same crowd. We simply feel left out of this world, just because we begin to feel that we are not a part of this crowd. We are then left to believe that we are left behind to a place, where no one even bothers to look at us. This situation arises at various points, because of our failures, and also because we over expect from ourselves. We make ourselves believe that we can do this and that and even more than that, which rise our own self expectations. And as we move on, without fulfilling our own expectations, we feel lost and left behind. In this process, what we are doing is just losing our own self confidence. We gain self-confidence when we start believing in the power of our dreams and feel successful in our own eyes. But in reality, what we do, is just compare our own abilities with others in the world, and during this comparison, we feel lost because we feel not much powerful than the other one.

This is just because we are not him/her, but we are just ourselves. Our ability is our own and that is why we are unique. This inequality in the caliber and confidence make us feel lost because we are not able to find someone similar. We always end up saying that he/she has much greater salary or a big house but we forget to be thankful to what we have. Do we ever find ourselves saying that I have a salary which caters to my needs? Or do we say that no matter how much big house anyone might have, I have the perfect set of people with me to make my house a home, a place to which I can feel attached?

No, we never ever thank the life for giving us what we have…

That is why we end up feeling lost in this crowd…..

We also end up running faster like the crowd which focus more and more the success and materiality in the life and end up showing gratitude in our life. We end up being thankful, that is why we end up being lost. In this success hungry world, we forget to look at the smaller things of happiness in life.

We do not feel grateful that is why we are lost

We do not adjust with the flow that is why we feel backward

We find no one to push up ourselves that is why we feel low

First be grateful, then earn confidence…. Then motivate yourselves and see your dreams take off to greater height in the future……