A support which change one’s life…

Every one of us have heard on common phrase, that we come alone, and go alone, in this world and from this world. A popular Hindi song even say, “Kehne ko saath apne ye dunia chalti hai, par chupke iss dil me tanhaai pal ti hai….” If you have carefully heard this song, it portrays how the protagonist feels lonely without a support with him, the support of one whom he loves.

This illustration shows us the power which a support has in our lives.

But have you ever wondered that why then, everyone is so dissatisfied with their lives. There may be two reasons to it:

Number 1: The person is unable to find someone who supports him/her.

Number 2: He/she have trusted on the wrong person for support.

But there can be a third aspect to this theory too. We come on this earth. Many of us think of its aim and many more never think about the reason for us to be in this world. In their journey, which is called life, they meet a number of persons, but not everyone stays with them lifelong. Only a handful of people are there with us, for lives. They may be our parents, friends, lovers or some other people who support us all the time. But still, why everyone feels lonely to their core. 

Why the protagonist in the above said song said that even if we have a crowd surrounding us, there is a sense of emptiness deep within. Maybe he was saying in material terms, that he wants the support of his loved one. But the line in the song is truly apt for the kind of support we wish to look for.

In this life, we will be unable to find anyone, who stays with us lifelong. This is because each one is entangled in the circle of life and death and moreover, the materialistic desires do not let a person to give support to other ones. Then you may wonder, you are here to be all alone…

Yes you come alone, you go alone, but this do not mean that you will not get a support for the time you are living your mortal life. Where will you get the support?

The answer lies deep within your own personality. When we seek support, we wish just someone who just be a pillar to listen, console and suggest ways to tackle problems which we find hard to decipher. This in short means we need someone to motivate us. When we do not have faith on our own self, we seek external support. Then why not each one of us instead of looking for an external support hold our own self, stand up with our heads high and move forward with regained confidence. This will make us self-reliant and self-motivated which would ensure that we trust the right one and also we find the one who is always to support us through thick and thin. As we will be our own pillar, we would have the power to influence our own self, with a better vision and understanding.

Believe in yourself and feel the power within…