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The love, without ethics…

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This world, in the process of modernization, have adopted many ways, which in any sense, are not ethical, not even moral. Every aspect of a human life, is overshadowed by the strive to be modern and to prove oneself, more advanced than the other.  The discussions which were a part of closed rooms are being done on round tables, the things which were considered taboo, are being adopted with wide arms. In short, everyone is changing, the world is changing. But with this process, is it really essential to change our values, our ethics and our tradition.
Marriage, since time immemorial, have been considered a sacred institution. In our country, it is the beginning of a new life when both the pillars of this institution, take seven vows which are to be followed throughout lives. Marriage is an institution, which stands on the podium of trust. The trust which a husband has on his wife and vice versa. Trust, you will say, does not build up overnight. To build a relationship of trust, it is important for a person, to be true to himself first. Then only he/she can make other one trust him/her.
It is seen nowadays, that the modern generation, in the name of love and trust, do not resist the temptation to give up their virginity to a person, who might or might not be truly committed towards them. This, in the modern term, is known to be premarital sexual relationship.
Is it really worth it? Can you risk everything for a momentary pleasure? Will your conscious not question you? Will your soul permit you to do something which can end up in making you guilty for the whole life?
If you really love someone, then it is never essential to devote anything else, than your trust. Sex, lust, passion and the desperation to experience it, force you to take some decisions, which might appear fine at that particular time, but in the long run, they can never be justified. Before permitting anyone to touch your body, be very sure that he/she touch your soul, and will continue to do so. And such level of dedication can never come before someone feels responsible towards the other. Relationships these days stand on the need and passion, to feel each other and to experience vigor. And soon after they experience it, the passion fades away. The lust towards someone cannot make the other committed towards you, but commitment towards you can be a reason to go beyond the line.
Before really thinking about taking your relationship to the next level, be very sure that it do not turn out to be a decision, which would make you cry for the rest of your life. If you cannot wait, then be ready to face the consequences. It is also said in the sacred Bhagwad that premarital sex is the greatest sin as it makes one’s soul polluted. And once a soul is polluted it never can make the other one, trust itself. So, if in life you think about going all the way, keep in mind that the chances to carry on will be minimum, but the guilt will be maximum for the rest of your life.

Read the highly demanded mystical true love story…. Right from the pen of Poonam Uppal which talks about a secret scripture, and see how this scripture is associated to the concept of premarital sex…


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